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Cake day: October 19th, 2025

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  • So I’m not American but I do identify as Mexican-Canadian. I am an immigrant so for me that is a very important distinction.

    In my perspective though, I wouldn’t ever want to make fun of someone for identifying as whatever. However, there is something about the cultural aspect of it that bothers me. If you are many generations in and have, for all intents and purposes, lost your connection with the hyphenated part of your culture, and don’t have any intent to learn with or contect with that culture other than by name, it does feel a bit preformative. If someone is actively reconnecting with their culture and trying to learn/understand more about their heritage, then it’s fine IMO, otherwise it seems disrespectful/appropriative. You can just as easily say “my ancestry is _____”, without claiming it as your culture.



  • Gender in sports historically has only been because men don’t like being beat by women. Weight/skill classes make way more sense.

    The whole bathroom thing is insane, just fucking make private stalls/rooms for everyone. Nobody should be seeing/smelling any of it.

    The pronouns thing is already resolved. If you use a pronoun, you’re referring to the most recently mentioned person. If you need to switch people, just mention the other person’s name again. If people don’t get that, they should go back to fucking grade school.

    So yes I agree with you on all points but also I’m just fucking tired.