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Cake day: June 12th, 2023

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  • Key quote for the curious:

    They [the paper he’s discussing] conclude that there’s a community-member’s “trilemma”: a set of three priorities that can never be fully satisfied by any group. The trilemma consists of users’ need to find:

    a) A community of like-minded people;

    b) Useful information; and

    c) The largest possible audience.

    The thing that puts the “lemma” in this “trilemma” is that any given group can only satisfy two of these three needs. It’s hard to establish the kinds of intimate, high-trust bonds with the members of a giant, high-traffic group, but your small, chummy circle of pals might not be big enough to include people who have the information you’re seeking.


  • When I was very young my mom was making bread with beer and I begged her to let me try it. Finally she relented that I could have a sip. I took one smell of the can and never had really had interest in trying again.

    Thought when it became legal for me, but figured I would either waste 5 bucks if I hate it or become an alchoholic if I don’t. Don’t trust myself enough to assume I’d always stay moderate with stuff like that.

    Now that I’m older, I’ve seen plenty of friends get deep into it then struggle through getting sober. Feel like I made good decisions.
















  • Sad to me a lot of times means stuff about time passing and getting older or things changing, so most of these are along that line. Some of the ones I think of first:

    Time, Fat Old Sun, and High Hopes by Pink Floyd

    In My Life by The Beatles (also Ozzy)

    Hurt by Johnny Cash (orginally NiN)

    Preaching the End of the World by Chris Cornell

    There Was a Light Here by Demon Hunter