Esoteric Ebb has a quest reward that makes you slightly less confused about gender. The tl;dr version of that very long text is “Be kind to all”.
And then you can chose between getting a bonus when speaking to either male characters or female characters.
I like this game very much. Highly recommend it.
PS: I am playing as The Cleric


I’m about 80% of the way through my first playthrough - game’s amazing! Best D&D game still Baldur’s Gate 3, amazing writing, dialogues are flavorful - internal ones particularly… Music’s good, art style is retro and cool, lore is dense and awesome, LOVE it so far.
Esoteric Ebb, is the game’s name, btw